Many women look forward to their wedding day. As little girls, they imagine the kind of man they want by their sides. They picture him tall, handsome, loving and very romantic. They can’t wait to meet that Prince Charming who will sweep them off their feet.

But, as these little girls grow older, they come to realise that nobody is perfect. From their relationships, they come to the shocking realization that there’s no perfect man anywhere. Gradually, their dreams of marrying Prince Charming are dashed.

So instead of looking for Mr. Perfect, they date and marry men who complement them perfectly. While some women go for men who will bring out the best in them, others make the mistake of marrying below their standards because they feel time is no longer on their side.

But getting married is not and will never be the greatest achievement in a woman’s life like some people claim and try to force women to believe. There’s more to a woman’s life than getting married especially if her husband is making her life more miserable than he’s making her happy.

Young ladies should not allow societal pressures or family pressures to land them in bad marriages. As you look for Mr. Right, you should be mentally and spiritually alert. Don’t let love becloud your sense of reasoning. Ladies should look at some of the good and bad traits in the men they are planning to marry so that they won’t regret their choices later.

Ladies, there are men you should leave in the dating pool for life. You shouldn’t marry such men no matter how much you think your biological clock is ticking. They are bad news. Such men will make your life miserable. They will bring nothing but pains, tears, drama and emotional torture to your life. Don’t marry the kind of men listed below for your own good.

Marrying an insecure man is one of the worst things you can do to yourself as a woman. Does he always seem jealous or insecure of anything and anybody you come in contact with? If he is always suspicious of every single person that comes close to you, then think twice about being in a lifetime partnership with him. Trust is very important in a relationship and even more crucial in a marriage. A marriage would not last long if one partner consistently suspects the other one of being unfaithful.

The man who still loves his ex will never make a good husband. This is because no matter what you do, he will be comparing you with his ex. You will not be good enough. Your food won’t be delicious enough like hers. You won’t dress well like her. You won’t be beautiful like she was. You just can’t win with the man who still loves his ex.

The lying man is another man ladies should not marry. Have you noticed that he lies about a lot of things, even things that do not really matter? Some men are perpetual liars and thinking about settling down with such a man would only bring you more heartbreak. Lying men can hurt your feelings without a care in the world. The worst part is that they don’t see anything wrong with their actions.

No woman should put up with an abusive man. If you notice the man you are dating seems temperamental to the point of abuse, then it is best you leave that relationship before things get more serious. Don’t say your pastor told you that your prayers will change him when you eventually get married. Run as fast as your legs can carry you away from that verbally and physically abusive man.

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Ladies should avoid getting married to men with no future ambitions. A man who hopes to support his family someday should have some plans on how to do that. When the man you are with does not seem to have any sort of idea of what he wants to do with his life, then it is best to get off that relationship train. A man should be a leader in his family, but if he does not know where he is headed, how would he be able to lead right?

Just like there are some women who have issues with committing to anything, we also have men who are this way. If he is afraid of commitment then it is no use convincing him that committing to a marriage is a good idea.

Does he cheat on you time and time again? Does he always seem to be looking for the next lay even while he professes his love to you? Then it is a bad idea to consider such a man for marriage. Cheats hardly change who they are, no matter how many times they promise they will.

You shouldn’t marry a stingy man. Any man who finds it difficult to be generous with his material possessions, even when he has more than enough to share will not make a good husband. Marriage involves a lot of sharing and if he is too self obsessed to meet your needs, your union would end up being one-sided if you go ahead to marry him.

Any addiction becomes an extra work for the partner involved. If you suspect he might be an alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, sex, etc addict, then it is better to save yourself future pain and unhappiness by looking for someone else. Marrying an addict automatically puts you and your family in second place. Something else will always come first and this would usually have an adverse effect on you and your marriage.

Ladies, stay away from the disrespectful man. A man who is disrespectful to you or even everyone in general would not make a good husband. Respect is very important in every relationship and if you constantly feel disrespected, then it certainly would not lead to a happy home.

Marrying a mummy’s boy is bad news. You won’t have peace living with a mummy’s boy. A healthy love for his mother is always very important when it comes to choosing a partner but if he cannot so much as decide what to have for breakfast without consulting his mother, then perhaps, this is a union you should reconsider.

In a marriage, decisions are made between the man and the wife. But if go ahead to marry such a boy who can’t take decisions on his own without mummy dearest sanctioning it, get ready to start hearing, “My mom doesn’t cook her soup like that.” You just won’t enjoy marrying a mummy’s boy. Mummy’s opinion overshadows yours automatically because your man is still a boy trapped in a man’s body.

The control freak is not a man you should marry. If you sense your man insists on having his way all the time without considering you or your opinions, don’t marry him. You won’t have a say in your marriage. You will become a slave who should obey every instruction without questions. That’s not how a marriage should be. Do yourself a favour and show him the door on time.

A manipulator won’t also make a good husband. He will hurt you and turn around to blame you for his actions. He will beat you because you provoked him. He will not take responsibilities for his actions but will turn around to blame you for his many irresponsible actions. Such men should be avoided when it comes to marriage.